Honestly now...I need some opinions!
I have been told, by a reliable source that I sometimes come across as somewhat "unavailable and snobbish". Now...I would like to clear this misconception up. I am the nicest, friendliest person EVER...I am just insanely shy! This is what is plaguing me...I can't meet guys because I seem unapproachable because I tend to avoid all eye-contact and only talk to my friends. Now, I can see how this method is not working for me. In Fact, I totally agree that I must seem like a bitch. But, I can't help it! I'm a shy girl who is plagued with low self-esteem. I just assume that every guy would much rather talk to my much hotter friends than me, so I try to make it easy for them. Have at 'em! I'll just stay here ignoring you.
So, my question to you is: how did I ever fall into this habit? And how the hell do I get out of it?
I have been told, by a reliable source that I sometimes come across as somewhat "unavailable and snobbish". Now...I would like to clear this misconception up. I am the nicest, friendliest person EVER...I am just insanely shy! This is what is plaguing me...I can't meet guys because I seem unapproachable because I tend to avoid all eye-contact and only talk to my friends. Now, I can see how this method is not working for me. In Fact, I totally agree that I must seem like a bitch. But, I can't help it! I'm a shy girl who is plagued with low self-esteem. I just assume that every guy would much rather talk to my much hotter friends than me, so I try to make it easy for them. Have at 'em! I'll just stay here ignoring you.
So, my question to you is: how did I ever fall into this habit? And how the hell do I get out of it?
Next Order of Business!
What the hell is up with all this 'Cute' business?! Ya know...in highschool, I really enjoyed the cute aspect of my life. BUt now...i'm thinking...I'd like to be hot! or Sexy! or Alluring! Just once!! Anyone of those!! Anything really!! But nope...I'm stuck in the cute category! IT wouldn't be so bad if I could meet guys that were attracted to cute and appreciated me for my cutey-ness...but nope. See above as to why I don't meet any of those :)
So, my question is: Is my level of cuteness going to push me into an eternity of lonely-ness?
OK...final issue! So, what do you do when someone is interested in you that you're REALLY not into? I know I've spend this entire blog bitching about my lack of ability to attract guys...but what I MEANT to say if attract guys who I'M attracted to! Cause I have tons of luck with all the other ones! So, there is this guy who I know (no names!), who is super nice, funny, reasonably attractive and is very into me. But my problem is...I do not feel ANY of those things for him. He's really one of those people who I couldn't care less if we remained friends....to me, he's a casual friend. And I think that's what makes me feel the worst. He deserves someone nice...just not me. :s
And my question is: What do I do? I can't avoid him and I don't want to be bitchy girl. Yikes!
So, yes...any imput is greatly apprechiated!! :D
1 comment:
Ok so do I have to harass you every time I want a new entry? I would love to comment on your above questions but I think I'm the last person to be giving advice unless you want help on getting with your best male friends, then I'm a pro apparently! :) D.
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